I have been getting feedback from Tommy’s school for a while now that he has been enamored with another student at school. As time progressed, it became more intense, so discussion started with the staff about how to best manage both Tommy and the other student’s needs. I love his school for this very reason, they always have each students needs as their primary concern and are open to looking at all potential ways to address their needs.
So, as I was having this discussion with the staff, I heard what they were saying about what this looked like at school – but my instincts kept telling me it wasn’t about the relationship between Tommy and this other student – but more about the sound or tone that the other student offered in Tommy’s presence. My instinct kept growing stronger and stronger as I was listening to staff, so I offered this up to them. I could almost hear the sigh of relief as they saw the situation differently.
Within a few days, the entire staff went from frustration to excitement as they provided Tommy with unlimited access to an electronic keyboard to create the sounds, tones and vibrations that were comforting to him. Here is the miracle that came from following my instincts… they reported that rather than approaching the other student, Tommy is now asking for more access to the keyboard.
I still am amazed by how quickly things can shift when we listen to our instincts!
And, I am even more amazed and delighted at the new opportunities that are now opening up for Tommy and the staff as they explore his love for tones and vibrations!
This is a wonderful post, Sue! I loved reading it. Thinking differently about things while ‘listening’ to our instincts is critical and opens our minds, hearts, and lives. Thanks for sharing this experience about Tommy. Sending him love and to you all.